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The Marriage Catechumenate
Purification and Synthesis
Purification and Synthesis is a time of final preparation for the couple to reflect on what they’ve learned, to root it more deeply in their hearts, and engage in spiritual preparation for the Rite of Matrimony. In the Catechumenate, the period of Purification and Enlightenment immediately precedes the celebration of the sacraments and is a time of spiritual recollection, more intense spiritual preparation, and a time to synthesize all that has been learned on the journey. Leaving room for pastoral discernment and the needs of each couple in accompanying them toward the sacrament, suggestions for this phase of the catechumenate would include Inviting the couple to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation as away of readying their souls, taking on some sort of additional prayer and fasting, making available Prayer Reflections or devotionals, praying together as a couple, memorizing vows, inviting Jesus into their marriage, using the Blessing for Engaged Couples from the Order of Matrimony, or attending a retreat designed for this part of the Marriage Catechumenate. Available retreats:
Engaged Couples Retreat - St. Francis Retreat Center
Engaged Couples Retreat - St. Francis Retreat Center
The Engaged Couples Retreat at St. Francis Retreat Center is an overnight retreat designed to help couples prepare for the Sacrament of Matrimony while deepening their relationship with Christ and one another. Through both theological and practical presentations, couples reflect on the meaning of Catholic marriage and the vocation they are preparing to enter. The retreat includes prayer, Mass, a blessing of engaged couples, and opportunities for meaningful conversation together. Shared experiences such as meals, a special couples dinner, and other activities create space for engaged couples to grow in faith, communication, and love as they prepare for married life.