"He will swallow up death forever; and the Lord God will wipe away tears from all faces, and the reproach of his people he will take away from all the earth, for the Lord has spoken." Isaiah 25:8
Ways to Memorialize
Have a mass said for your family
Speak with your parish priest
Shrine of the Holy Innocents
- https://shrineofholyinnocents.org/shrine-of-the-unborn
- Baby’s name is recorded in the Book of Life, mass is said for all the unborn recorded in the book, possible printable certificate via e-mail
Name your baby
Plant a tree
Talk about your baby with siblings; include the child in the family count; talk about the child by name
Ask your baby to intercede for your family with prayers
Memorial jewelry
Memorial/prayer garden
Keepsake boxes/Home memorials
Journal/Write letters to baby
Honor baby on birthday or due date
Christmas ornaments
Books
After Miscarriage: A Catholic Woman’s Companion to Healing & Hope
by: Karen Edmisten
- See Magnolia Sweet Healing for a potentially free copy.
- https://magnoliasweethealing.wordpress.com
Grieving Together: A Couple’s Journey Through Miscarriage
by: Laura Kelly Fanucci & Franco David Fanucci
Blessed Is the Fruit of Thy Womb: Rosary Reflections on Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant Loss
by: Heidi Indahl
Nursery of Heaven: Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant Loss In the Lives of the Saints and Today’s Parents
by: Patrick O’Hearn and Cassie Everts
Empty Arms
by: Pam Vredevelt
A Grief Observed
by: C.S. Lewis
Websites/Support Groups
To the Moon and Back Ministry - St. Mary Parish, Westphalia
- Infertility, Miscarriage, and Infant Loss Support
Springs in the Desert
- Catholic Infertility Community (also walks with women who experience loss)
Red Bird Ministries
- Non-profit, pro-life, pro-family, Catholic grief support ministry
Ele's Place
- Grief support for children and teens
- Locations: Lansing, Flint, Ann Arbor, and Grand Rapids
*Are you aware of other local support groups within the Diocese of Lansing?
Please email ourlittleonesministry@outlook.com
Counselors
- St. Vincent Catholic Charities
- Catholic Charities of Shiawassee and Genesee Counties
NaPro Doctors
- Health Conditions
- Fertility and Midwifery Care Center
- Saint Paul VI Institute- Pro-Life Fertility Medical Care (Creighton Model) & NaPro Technology
Miscarriage and Infant Loss Support Providers in MI
- https://mycatholicdoctor.com/providers/miscarriage-and-infant-loss-support/michigan/
- https://mycatholicdoctor.com/catholic-miscarriage-and-infant-loss-support/
National Catholic Bioethics Center
- Call the Center at 215-877-2660, 24 hours/day, 7 days/week.
- They answer questions free of charge for those needing to make Catholic moral decisions.